I'm not trying to be a motivational speaker, but I want to write something very simple to you.
Every once in a while, we start to feel useless, as though we aren't being successful in our hopes and dreams. What I suggest you do is the following:
To start off with, turn on your favorite song and get up out of your computer chair or get up off of whatever you were sitting on and start moving. To be able to change your state, you have to start by putting your body into motion. Do whatever you can think of when you're on your own, or even if you're with somebody else, to just get yourself up and moving. This is one of the most important things that you can do to put yourself into a better state. The reason that you want to put yourself into such a good state is so that you can go back to accomplishing your goals and desires.
Look at the things that you're supposed to accomplish and think about them with confidence. Say out loud what they're going to do for you if you achieve them. Think about the exact things that are going to happen to you if you actually accomplish the goals that you are setting out to do. Look at them and get excited about them, and think about how great you'll be after you've accomplished those goals. Use your voice to yell out affirmative actions and statements, explaining why you're going to be in such a good position after you've accomplished the goal. You have to feel passionate.
The first thing you must do in order to get back on track is to raise your standards. How do you do this? As Anthony Robbins says, "You must make your shoulds into musts." Look at the goal you have to accomplish and think about why you absolutely must accomplish it. You have to come up with a reason that's going to force you into doing it.
Then you must vividly imagine yourself accomplishing that goal. Think about exactly what it'll look like, and what you'll feel like as soon as you've accomplished the goal. Close your eyes and imagine it very clearly because imagining it will make it seem real. As you begin to do this in your mind, you will affirm your belief in the possibility of achieving the goal.
Typically in life, just as things start to go right, suddenly everything goes wrong at once. When things were just starting to go perfectly, shit hits the fan. These are the times that test you, and you must look at them as though they are tests and as though they are the only thing that separates you from reaching your dreams.
Remember: when things seem impossible, that is the time to intensify your emotions, intensify your drive, and prove to the world that you can do it. This is what makes you you and everyone else them.
And the final key, according to Robbins, is that when you feel all the way down and out and you feel that there is absolutely nothing else that you can do, and that everything is going wrong, you still must give to others. When you feel like there's nothing left to give, you have to give even more. That's what separates the true winner from everyone else. When you feel like you're running out of money and you have nothing left, don't take advantage of others. Keep giving. As Robbins says, “The only way to become wealthy is to add more value to other's lives than anyone else's adding.” This is how to do it, and those that follow these steps are guaranteed success.
Never let those days where feel like you are failing in your passion and dreams stop your drive. Constantly go back and look at what your goals are and think about how they are going to make you feel. Think of all that you will achieve by reaching them. And then just go for it.
If you want to accomplish something, get excited about it. After that, everything else will fall into place.
Hey I'm Martin, and my goal is to help you reach yours. I love writing content about career advancement, marketing strategies, productivity, and much more.